Monday, February 25, 2013

Is This True For A Life

We teach our children to respect our elders and those in authority and most of all respect the laws of your land. These things are also part of the bible for the love we share for each other in this way we can work together for a better living.
But how can any one balance there life with respect for those in authority when those are the ones that make the pain and suffering for the people they will call the small man. But the small man is the driving force behind any country and get paid less.
Why is it a man or a woman will fall in love and move to another country and you are not respected by those in authority. One of the things i try to understand i working together for one common gold a better world for us all to live.
A man married a woman in Switzerland have two children poor guy up to now he never understand why him and his wife separate but any how he accepted it. At court he got the right to see his children because he had on problems with his children.
To see his children it is a problem by his now ex wife and the community was asked by the court to look over the visits of the children. When the order of the court was sent to the community a man by the name of  Helmut Jost rewrite the order of the court.
He wrote a protokol and give it to the man telling him how he can see his children even if an order was sent to him by the court how it should be done. Now big problems for this man he is not from Switzerland but his ex wife is and she worked at the community.
Now that the matter is finish in court his ex wife stop him from seeing the children now his problems start the people at the community offices will not listen to him and at one stage while the matter was still at court the community leader call him to a meeting.
They had him sign over the apartment to her then she pack all his clothes out side and all cat went and sleep in the things and he had to trow half his things. To think of what hell this guy went through by the community of Münsingen.
From the 5-12-12 he has not seen his children and there is no one that will say to her what she is doing is wrong. In Switzerland most of the children in foster homes are children of mixed nationality. And that is if the mother is not a from Switzerland.
To see how people are been some treated by the social workers that some of these women become sex workers or become crazy. One of the jobs you can find easy is selling drugs on the streets now think about it drugs are very expensive.
The police in Switzerland get the police Nigeria to work in Switzerland to catch the Nigerian selling drugs on the streets. What makes look funny. You as a person not from Switzerland to get help you will learn who is a Swiss and no one will look into it is this what adopting children is about.
   

Saturday, February 9, 2013

TO BELIEVE ON HIS HOLY NAME: Tried in his love

TO BELIEVE ON HIS HOLY NAME: Tried in his love: Tried in his love is part of your faith in walking in the footsteps of Jesus here on earth among men.When we speak of the devil we are also...

Tried in his love

Tried in his love is part of your faith in walking in the footsteps of Jesus here on earth among men.When we speak of the devil we are also talking about men because we are used as instruments of good and bad in this life to satisfy the lost of what every you believe in.
Lets take a walk with someone that believe the love of God is real and you can be tempted just as Jesus did and in most cases it can happen for the love of your children. The same people you spend your life loving will be the same ones to be the devil in your life.
A young man gave up his home in another land move to Switzerland because he fell in love with a woman and got married they both agree he would look for the family at home because she have a good job and the money is enough for them to live.
This they started doing then they become two children and things went well for a while and he would be the one trying his best to keep the hole family together. In this family at Xmas time he can bring the hole family together for a Xmas dinner.
This guy is an artist and from time to time he makes a little money from his art They are all living in the village of Muesingen. For this guy life start changing when he noticed going shopping with his mother in law she will be telling him what to buy.
His wife have no time for him he cannot speak to his children or else this can bring a big fight in the family. One day he went to the eye doctor and it was told to him he had to have glasses then one day the mother of his wife came and said let us go and get your glasses.
He slept in the same bed with his wife the night before they had no talks about that but he did went with her mother to get it. Then come the shock when his wife,s mother bought him a reading glasses for 12 fr. and at home his wife will not talk about it.
Now they had holidays plan together the mother call him and his family to dinner the children went early on in the day. Then later on in the evening him and his wife. After dinner they went home and at home the children started fighting .
This ended to be a fight between him and his wife two days later his wife took the children and left to her sister then one day later call him and said he should leave the house before she comes home. But he did not leave the house because he did not understand what was going on.
Days later she went to the social department in Muensingen told her story no one talk to him but the police got an order to remove him from the house. For him the police was very nice to him after letting them know his story they gave him the chance to get some place to go.
This guy had to go to Germany to friends because all the people he knows is her friends and all this went this far that it took him four months even sleeping on the streets before the social found him some place to sleep and the matter went to court because his wife want a divorce.
Life got very hard when the court gave him an order to see his children and ask the vormundchaft of Muesingen to look over the visits of the children because the mother of the children is educating the children against their father.
But instead of every thing going good at the Vormundchaft in Muesingen a group of people lead by a man by the name of Helmut Jost changed the order of the court and gave a protokoll on how he can see his children because his wife worked at one of the public office at one time.
All this get back to the hearing of the judge in the matter and he stop the Vormundchaft from looking over the visits of the children. The matter is finished before the court and he has rights to see his children the mother of the children stop him from seeing the children.
From the 5.12.12 up to now he cannot see his children and no one will do any thing about it now the father of the children is thinking of leaving Switzerland only because he thinks this is the only way his children can be at peace to have their education.
What i think this could be the last time he is seeing his children because no one is looking to help him because he is not Swiss and his children is educated against him by his ex wife and her family. For him what he thinks of all this is that he must show the love and respect that he found in believing in god.

Friday, January 18, 2013

Life in Switzerland

There are good people and bad people every where but those that have the power to change the law can make live very hard. In Switzerland if you are planning to get married to a woman and you are not a Swiss think careful before you do it.
A man got married to a Swiss woman have two children the life at home for that man was take care of the family while the wife work. Life was like this for him her mother will tell the man how to spend the money if he goes shopping with his wife;s mother.
If the children do any thing wrong and the father should correct the children he will find him self in big trouble with his wife and her mother. Things reach stage where the wife of this man do not even have the time to make love to her husband.
One evening the children started fighting and the father went to correct them and that cause a fight between him and his wife. Would you believe two days later the wife took the went to her sister then call the man and said to him she will not be coming home until he leave the house.
He did not leave as she said then she went to the social department in the Village of Münsingen told them her side of the story. They gave her a paper to go to the police with out talking with husband then the police call and said he have to leave the house.
In this case i must say the police was very nice to him when they went to the house and heard what happened. Live became for that man because it took four months before the social department find him a place to sleep could you imagine he does not have family in Switzerland.
Well i talk with this guy and he said he did not have any plans to leave his children and he has to find a way to be with his children. By this time the wife decides she want to have a divorce the matter went to court and the Judge made an order that he can see his children.
On top all this problem this man had for finding a place to sleep even sleeping on the streets the order from the court was sent to the social department in Münsingen.
This man must get his close from the house and see his children a man by the name of Mr.Helmut Jost call him to a meeting made him sign over the apartment to his wife changed the order from the court and give to him a protokoll on how he can see his children.
After getting the apartment in her name she packed all his things out side in boxes he does not know how long his things was outside the cats slept in his clothes so he had to put away half of it and some of the things he did not get.
All this is happening because his wife worked at one of the community office and he is not a Swiss.Now that the matter is finished in court from the 05-12-2012 the now ex wife stop him from seeing the children now is the 18-01-2013 and no one will do any thing about it on the other side of life the social department is giving him a hard time of his life because they want him to leave Switzerland.